[Double Post]

[hatohollowharvest]

[Event Post]

::You see Kyoko with glasses and a hat looking, trailing Kamala, writing down notes in a notepad. Now what could she be up to. This can be anywhere you'd normally find a Kamala.::

[Journal Post]

So, hypothetically speaking, how do you handle a relationship with someone who is um, I think the term, is mentally plural. ???

Comments

[Journal Post]

[daschillyone]

Well, I suppose the first step would be determining which "member" of said plurality you intend to form the relationship with. Then getting permission from the other members of said plurality. While I lack much experience with plural individuals, in the case where there is a more "dominant" personality, one who is in the driver's seat more than the others, I would wager a guess that they would be the one most "stable" to be in a relationship with, given they will be present more often than any others.

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[hatohollowharvest]

All of them.

Re: [Journal Post]

[daschillyone]

Well that just seems downright greedy! /Joke/
Well, that probably helps a bit. Clear and open communication is always a good place to start with any relationship. Make sure that you're aware of their needs and that they are aware of yours.

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[hatohollowharvest]

The problem is the fronting personality does not acknowledge the others exist.

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[daschillyone]

Then they probably won't appreciate you bringing it up. I would argue respecting their wishes on that matter would be quite important in a relationship.

Although I suppose I don't have much of a leg to stand on with romantic advice. I haven't had a romantic relationship since I became an adult, and have little experience working with "plural" individuals.

Re: [Journal Post]

[hatohollowharvest]

Maybe I should get them a ton of presents.

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[daschillyone]

Not everyone likes gifts, and they might not appreciate the obligation a gift brings.

Start small. Get to know them, express your interest, but understand that it's possible they won't feel the same way.

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[hatohollowharvest]

Hrm...

I wonder how I can serve as a secretary for the CEO of Black Velvet then...